上游充通大粤 探索活动：我的完美异性朋友 SHANGHAI JLAO TONG UNIVERSITY 请具体列出你理想中完美朋友的条件，若完美朋友为100%朋 友，请依你在乎的或看重的程度，对每项条件给予比重分配 ,所有条件比重加总为100%。（不少于5条条件） 条件 比例 ©小思考： (1)你最在乎的前三项完美朋友条件是什么？这些价值观对 生活（人际、学习、心情等）有何影响？ (2)你的价值观如何形成？
探索活动：我的完美异性朋友 请具体列出你理想中完美朋友的条件，若完美朋友为100%朋 友，请依你在乎的或看重的程度，对每项条件给予比重分配 ，所有条件比重加总为100%。（不少于5条条件） 条件 比例 小思考： （1）你最在乎的前三项完美朋友条件是什么？这些价值观对 生活（人际、学习、心情等）有何影响？ （2）你的价值观如何形成？
上游充通大粤 抉择的依据就是价值判断 SHANGHAI JLAO TONG UNIVERSITY 我们在生活中经常会面临选择，需要评估，而评估的标准是 一种价值判断。 生涯选择时，常遇到的问题： 该依自己的兴趣还是父母的想法？ 国 该选择热门科系还是自己的兴趣？ © 兴趣重要还是未来出路重要？ 毕业后该选择升学还是就业？ 该选择名校还是选择科系比较重要？ 等等 ©这时你常常犹豫不决，内心挣扎
抉择的依据就是价值判断 我们在生活中经常会面临选择，需要评估，而评估的标准是 一种价值判断。 生涯选择时，常遇到的问题： 该依自己的兴趣还是父母的想法？ 该选择热门科系还是自己的兴趣？ 兴趣重要还是未来出路重要？ 毕业后该选择升学还是就业？ 该选择名校还是选择科系比较重要？ 等等 这时你常常犹豫不决，内心挣扎
上文通大等在伦教闻名世界的威斯敏斯特大教堂地下 SHANGHAI JIAO TONG UNIVERSITY 室的墓碑林中，有一块名扬世界的墓碑 在這塊墓碑上，刻著這樣的一段話： When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits,I dreamed of changing the world. HARVEY As I grew older and wiser,I discovered the IRWIN world would not change,so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country.But it,too,seemed immovable.As I grew into my twilight years,in one last desperate attempt,I settled for changing only 当我年轻的时候，我的想象力从没有受到过限制， my family,those closest to me,but alas,they 我梦想改变这个世界。 当我成熟以后，我发现我不能改变这个世界，我 would have none of it.And now,as I lie on my 将目光缩短了些，决定只改变我的国家。 deathbed,I suddenly realize:If I had only 当我进入暮年后，我发现我不能改变我的国家， 我的最后愿望仅仅是改变一下我的家庭。但是， changed myself first,then by example I would 这也不可能。 当我躺在床上，行将就木时，我突然意识到： have changed my family.From their inspiration 如果一开始我仅仅去改变我自己，然后作为一个 榜样，我可能改变我的家庭；在家人的帮助和鼓 and encouragement,I would then have been 励下，我可能为国家做一些事情。然后谁知道呢？ able to better my country,and who knows,I 我甚至可能改变这个世界。 may have even changed the world
在伦敦闻名世界的威斯敏斯特大教堂地下 室的墓碑林中，有一块名扬世界的墓碑 在這塊墓碑上，刻著這樣的一段話： When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits,I dreamed of changing the world. As I grew older and wiser, I discovered the world would not change, so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country. But it, too, seemed immovable. As I grew into my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt, I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me, but alas, they would have none of it. And now, as I lie on my deathbed, I suddenly realize: If I had only changed myself first, then by example I would have changed my family. From their inspiration and encouragement, I would then have been able to better my country, and who knows, I may have even changed the world. 当我年轻的时候，我的想象力从没有受到过限制， 我梦想改变这个世界。 当我成熟以后，我发现我不能改变这个世界，我 将目光缩短了些，决定只改变我的国家。 当我进入暮年后，我发现我不能改变我的国家， 我的最后愿望仅仅是改变一下我的家庭。但是， 这也不可能。 当我躺在床上，行将就木时，我突然意识到： 如果一开始我仅仅去改变我自己，然后作为一个 榜样，我可能改变我的家庭；在家人的帮助和鼓 励下，我可能为国家做一些事情。然后谁知道呢？ 我甚至可能改变这个世界
上浒充通大学 SHANGHAI JLAO TONG UNIVERSITY 在伦敦闻名世界的威斯敏斯特大教堂地下室的墓碑林中，有一块名言世 界的墓碑。 When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits,I dreamed of changing the world. As I grew older and wiser,I discovered the world would not change,so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country. But it,too,seemed immovable. As I grew into my twilight years,in one last desperate attempt,I settled for changing only my family,those closest to me,but alas,they would have none of it. And now,as I lie on my deathbed,I suddenly realize:If I had only changed myself first,then by example I would have changed my family. From their inspiration and encouragement,I would then have been able to better my country,and who knows,I may have even changed the world
在伦敦闻名世界的威斯敏斯特大教堂地下室的墓碑林中，有一块名言世 界的墓碑。 When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits , I dreamed of changing the world. As I grew older and wiser, I discovered the world would not change, so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country. But it, too, seemed immovable. As I grew into my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt, I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me, but alas, they would have none of it. And now, as I lie on my deathbed, I suddenly realize: If I had only changed myself first, then by example I would have changed my family. From their inspiration and encouragement, I would then have been able to better my country, and who knows, I may have even changed the world
上游充通大学 中文翻译 SHANGHAI JLAO TONG UNIVERSITY 当我年轻的时候，我的想象力从没有受到过限制，我梦想改 变这世界。 当我成熟以后，我发现我不能改变这个世界，我将目光缩短 了些，决定只改变我的国家。 当我进入墓年后，我发现我不能改变我的国家， 我的最后愿 望仅仅是改变一下我的家庭。但是，这也不可能。 当我躺在床上，行将就木时，我突然意识到： 如果一开始我仅仅是改变自己，然后作为一个榜样，我可能 改变我的家庭；在家人的帮助和鼓励下，我可能为国家做一 些事情。然后谁知道呢？我甚至可能改变这个世界
中文翻译 当我年轻的时候，我的想象力从没有受到过限制，我梦想改 变这世界。 当我成熟以后，我发现我不能改变这个世界，我将目光缩短 了些，决定只改变我的国家。 当我进入墓年后，我发现我不能改变我的国家，我的最后愿 望仅仅是改变一下我的家庭。但是，这也不可能。 当我躺在床上，行将就木时，我突然意识到： 如果一开始我仅仅是改变自己，然后作为一个榜样，我可能 改变我的家庭；在家人的帮助和鼓励下，我可能为国家做一 些事情。然后谁知道呢？我甚至可能改变这个世界