the point is in how to refine and control himself. 在社交中,人人都想要别人看到自己最好的一面而不是最糟糕的一面。但关键在于如何 优化和克制自我。 6. to feel sth. deeply about sb.(L.40)在某人身上深深感受到 When you find what you feel deeply about your lover is just what you have been longing for it is the ripe time to propose to her/him 当你发现在恋人身上深深感受到的东西正是你长期渴望的,求婚的时机就成熟了 approach sth. with a(n)..attitude. (L. 43)( to begin to consider or deal with) 以∷…态度对待/处理某事 We should approach criticism with such an honest attitude that we correct mistakes if we have made any and guard against them if we have ne 对待批评要诚恳;做到:有则改之,无则加勉 8. suspect: vt believe( esp sth. bad) to true or likely Doubt: vt believe that sth is probably not true or possible I suspect they are very disappointed 我猜想他们会很失望 We suspect they 'll be a little lat 我们揣测他们会晚来一会儿 i doubt that he'll come。 我怀疑他是不会来了。 i doubt what he said 我不太相信他说的话 19. to resolve all doubt( to find a solution)(L.63)消除疑虑 For others to resolve doubt about your abilities, the bottom line consists not in what you say but in what you de 要想让别人对你的能力消除疑虑,关键不在于你说什么,而在于你做什么, 0. to be never too….to..(L.65)永远不会太…以致不能 If you admit life is full of beauty, be never too busy to enjoy the wonder of life 如果你承认生活充满了美,那千万不要过于忙碌以致不能享受生活的美妙。 Sentence patterns: 1. Typical patterns for showing the changes of one 2. Typical patterns for expressing ones disapproval of doing sth 3. Typical patterns for expressing one's reservations about sth 1. Typical patterns for showing the changes of one's mind FRf: To start with I must admit that at first I harbored reservations about a mixed marriage But when I met Mark, I found him a charming and intelligent young guy.(L. 28) 首先我必须承认,刚开始我对异族通婚是有保留的,……但当我见到马克时我发现他 是一个既讨人喜欢又聪明的年轻人 句型提炼: To start with,sb. admits(fels/ believes) that at first( at the beginning)…. But when (as )., he /she found(realized )that 首先某人承认(感到/认为),起初 但是当··时,某人发现(感觉到)
the point is in how to refine and control himself. 在社交中，人人都想要别人看到自己最好的一面而不是最糟糕的一面。但关键在于如何 优化和克制自我。 16. to feel sth. deeply about sb. (L. 40) 在某人身上深深感受到······ When you find what you feel deeply about your lover is just what you have been longing for, it is the ripe time to propose to her / him. 当你发现在恋人身上深深感受到的东西正是你长期渴望的，求婚的时机就成熟了。 17. to approach sth. with a(n) … attitude. (L. 43) ( to begin to sconsider or deal with) 以······态度对待／处理某事 We should approach criticism with such an honest attitude that we correct mistakes if we have made any and guard against them if we have not. 对待批评要诚恳；做到：有则改之，无则加勉。 18. suspect: vt. believe ( esp. sth. bad) to true or likely Doubt: vt. believe that sth is probably not true or possible I suspect they are very disappointed. 我猜想他们会很失望。 We suspect they’ll be a little late. 我们揣测他们会晚来一会儿。 I doubt that he’ll come。 我怀疑他是不会来了。 I doubt what he said. 我不太相信他说的话。 19. to resolve all doubt ( to find a solution) (L. 63) 消除疑虑 For others to resolve doubt about your abilities, the bottom line consists not in what you say but in what you do. 要想让别人对你的能力消除疑虑，关键不在于你说什么，而在于你做什么。 20. to be never too … to … (L. 65) 永远不会太······以致不能······ If you admit life is full of beauty, be never too busy to enjoy the wonder of life. 如果你承认生活充满了美，那千万不要过于忙碌以致不能享受生活的美妙。 Sentence patterns: 1. Typical patterns for showing the changes of one’s mind 2. Typical patterns for expressing one’s disapproval of doing sth. 3. Typical patterns for expressing one’s reservations about sth. 1. Typical patterns for showing the changes of one’s mind 原句: To start with I must admit that at first I harbored reservations about a mixed marriage, …. But when I met Mark, I found him a charming and intelligent young guy. (L. 28) 首先我必须承认，刚开始我对异族通婚是有保留的,······但当我见到马克时,我发现他 是一个既讨人喜欢又聪明的年轻人。 句型提炼: To start with, sb. admits ( feels / believes) that at first ( at the beginning) … But when (as) …, he / she found (realized) that… 首先某人承认(感到/认为),起初，······ 但是当······时,某人发现(感觉到)······
应用 1)To start with I must admit that at the beginning her looks left little impression on me. But as we made more contacts with each other, I found her sweet, virtuous, and good at reading my 首先我应该承认起初她的外貌并没有给我留下什么印象。但随着我们接触增多我发现 她温柔、贤惠、善解人意。 2)To start with he admits that at first he took the matter for granted, assuming it was not worth much of his efforts. but when he set about doing it he came to a sudden awareness that nothing is so easy if one wants to do it better 他首先承认当初他对此事想得太简单,觉得不用费多大力。但当他着手做此事时,他 突然意识到,凡事想做好都不容易。 2. Typical patterns for showing one's disapproval of doing sth NRG]: If we had to resolve all doubt before we acted, very little would ever get done. (L 63) 假如我们在做任何事情之前,必须把所有的疑难问题全部解决的话,那么我们几乎就什 么都干不成了 句型提炼:Ifsb. has to do sth. before sh. does what he wants to do, little( nothing) would 在…之前,假如必须做…,那么几乎什么(没有任何事情)可以(能够) 应用 1)Admittedly, being cautious really matters. But if we have to look ahead and behind before we take actions nothing could be achieved 诚然,谨慎的确重要。但如果在采取行动之前我们总得瞻前顾后,那么什么事情也做不 成 2)If we have to get everyone's approval of a plan before we put it into effect, many opportunities would be wasted, thus leaving little to be done 假如我们在实施一项计划之前必须征得每个人的支持,那么很多机会就会白白丧失, 从而一事无成 3. Typical patterns for expressing one's reservations about sth. 原句: You may be right. But I still think that waiting won’thut(L41) 你也许是对的。但我还是认为再等一段时间有好处 句型提炼:Sb.(Sth) else may be right( correct/ reasonable/tue). But sb. still thinks( believes considers /feels/ takes the view)that 某人(某事)也许是对的。但某人仍然认为 应用 1)Developing local economy is correct. But I still believe developing the economy at the expense of the environment is no different from killing the goose to get its golden egg 发展当地经济是正确的。但我仍然认为以牺牲环境为代价来发展经济无异于杀鸡取卵 2)His definition of success may be right. But I still think a successful person is one who persists in pursuing his dream. It's the process, not the result, that counts 他关于成功的定义也许是对的。但我仍然认为一个成功的人是执着追求自己梦想的人 重要的是过程,而非结果。 IV Writing skills
应用: 1) To start with I must admit that at the beginning her looks left little impression on me. But as we made more contacts with each other, I found her sweet, virtuous, and good at reading my mind. 首先我应该承认,起初她的外貌并没有给我留下什么印象。但随着我们接触增多,我发现 她温柔、贤惠、善解人意。 2) To start with he admits that at first he took the matter for granted, assuming it was not worth much of his efforts. But when he set about doing it, he came to a sudden awareness that nothing is so easy if one wants to do it better. 他首先承认当初他对此事想得太简单, 觉得不用费多大力。 但当他着手做此事时, 他 突然意识到，凡事想做好都不容易。 2. Typical patterns for showing one’s disapproval of doing sth. 原句: If we had to resolve all doubt before we acted, very little would ever get done. (L. 63) 假如我们在做任何事情之前,必须把所有的疑难问题全部解决的话,那么我们几乎就什 么都干不成了。 句型提炼: If sb. has to do sth. before sb. does what he wants to do, little (nothing) would … 在······之前,假如必须做······,那么几乎什么(没有任何事情)可以(能够)······ 应用: 1) Admittedly, being cautious really matters. But if we have to look ahead and behind before we take actions, nothing could be achieved. 诚然, 谨慎的确重要。但如果在采取行动之前我们总得瞻前顾后, 那么什么事情也做不 成. 2) If we have to get everyone’s approval of a plan before we put it into effect, many opportunities would be wasted, thus leaving little to be done. 假如我们在实施一项计划之前必须征得每个人的支持, 那么很多机会就会白白丧失, 从而一事无成。 3. Typical patterns for expressing one’s reservations about sth. 原句: You may be right. But I still think that waiting won’t hurt. (L.41) 你也许是对的。但我还是认为再等一段时间有好处。 句型提炼: Sb. (Sth.) else may be right (correct / reasonable / true). But sb. still thinks (believes / considers / feels / takes the view) that … 某人(某事)也许是对的。但某人仍然认为······ 应用: 1) Developing local economy is correct. But I still believe developing the economy at the expense of the environment is no different from killing the goose to get its golden egg. 发展当地经济是正确的。但我仍然认为以牺牲环境为代价来发展经济无异于杀鸡取卵。 2) His definition of success may be right. But I still think a successful person is one who persists in pursuing his dream. It’s the process, not the result, that counts. 他关于成功的定义也许是对的。但我仍然认为一个成功的人是执着追求自己梦想的人。 重要的是过程，而非结果。 IV. Writing Skills